Stage Four

http://www.dallasnews.com/lifestyles/columnists/lorrie-irby-jackson/20120706-spoil-your-child-and-youll-ruin-the-adult-hell-become.ece

I strongly agree with what Ms. Jackson is saying in this articles about spoiling our children. It is true base on the family background and how both parents were raise. In America society the parents are afraid to laid their hands on their children, because they afraid that their children will call the police on them. As for me coming from a Vietnamese families. Both of my parents were raise with strict house rules and behavior rules. So coming from a very strict family is a good thing. Although my mom had provide me a very good health, clothing and foods. She does not spoil me like the rest of the children that she knows (even if I was the only child). Peoples say being an only child is spoil. But I disagree, because as I remember when I was little. I asked for a doll, even after my mom had say no for three times. I kept on asking her but she didn't respond to me. Boy was I wrong, I got a good spank when I get home. After that incident I know not to asked her again unless I really want it and something to prove that I really need it. Society nowaday are afraid to discipline their child because they think if they spank them then they are a bad parents. I believe that if you don't spank them and teach them a lesson they will get worse later on. Also they know how to take advantage of their parents if they do certain things. If that was how they were raise, imagine what it would be like if they grow up and treat others. Like if they don't have it their way they will throw a tantrum. Overall, the parents should discipline the children when they are doing something wrong or tell them that the world doesn't involve around them.